I sent Jim a smile, forgot about it, went on with my life, about a week later I was checking my email and saw that Jim sent me back a smile. So one day, I tried the site to see if he was on and he was. We talked for hours on end, then on the phone. We met in person within a week. Jim and I lived over a hour away from each other, and if not for this site would have probably never met. Anyway, we have 5 boys between us, one grandson, and we couldn"t be happier. I have dreamed of a man like Jim my whole life. Thank you again for making dreams come true. Good Luck to all that try to find love, it"s really out there! I know that now. Just hold on to your dreams and be willing to try new things. You just never know when your whole life can change.